My DD and Me

Some of my favourite photos of us.
For the benefit of my readers, DD refers to Darling Derrick.

Simply blissful enjoying each other's company.

Our dive kiss - who said salt and sweet won't taste good together?
I say it's electrifying.


The first picture taken as a couple.


On the sky ride, at Sentosa.


All smiles at Gotham Penthouse.


The first spark at Mambo, Zouk.


Dining at one of the street hawkers in Semporna,
where I became a diver and dived at Sipadan.

Time Lapse

Sometimes, there's simply no way to hold on to the hands of the clock. They just keep ticking by, moving on. Watching the seconds ticked by, I realised it has been weeks since I last blogged. It's now time to revive it.

I have been kept happily occupied throughout this hiatus. Due to limited time, this blog would be a brief update, without some really juicy images. But, I promise I would include more pictures in my next blogs. Hopefully, in the not-too-far future.

Let's see.

I have been highly favoured, truly blessed and deeply loved. Many beaufiful things happened to me during this lapse. I encountered amazing experiences with my mighty creator's most wonderful creations.

HE sent me one of his most amazing works. A creation I never expected I would fall in love with. But when I finally gave in to my feelings of falling in love with him, I know we would be together in every sense of the word. For he is God-sent, to make my life a better, more joyous, loving and wonderful place to dwell in.

He brought joy to not just my life, but also my family's. He is my DD and I thank our Father Lord for him. Since he is so special, you will definitely see more of him.

My diving dream finally materialised. The world I longed to see did not disappoint me. It is filled with colourful creations of God.

I love the feeling of being immersed in the water, the taste of the salty sea water and feeling the coolness of the water on my skin. I enjoy breathing through the regulator, listening to my breathing, watching the sea creatures swim by, or sometimes just corals, hovering to watch some sea creatures and being propelled by my very nice Twin Jet fins. It's a whole new world to explore. And I am determined to dive the world.

By the way, I do feel quite belonged under the sea (for those who are sniggering, I know why). And I yearn to keep going back to that world beneath. Since this is also special to me, I would be writing more on diving too. Of course, diving is even more special to me because it was the beginning to my walk of love with MY DD.

I am not relaxing anymore, but found a job. A job in an industry that I always wanted a foot in. Things are going well so far. I am definitely enjoying the challenges, my job scope and environment.

Heeding the Lord's calling, I am also serving in my church in the Children Ministry. After starting off with the P3 & P4, I decided to have a go at the nursery. They are the Lord's such endearing creations! I have fallen in love with them. And I look forward to seeing these children every Sunday.

In order to build a deeper relationship with my Heavenly Father, DD and I have also started our bible study class. Definitely challenging, but insightful.

So, my dear readers, as you can see, so much have gone on in my life during this time lapse. However, I am happy and enjoying my life. I give the credit to my first priority in life, my Father in Heaven. He has blessed me abundantly. Amen!

Life is Funny Sometimes...

Life is really funny sometimes.
Certain things just happened when you least expected.

For example, finding out your ex got married.
Not through the horse's mouth but his wife's friendster.
And his wife, whom I do not know added me to her friendster.
How peculiar.
As a matter of fact, my ex and I had not contacted for eons.

Of course, many other things that happened added on to my thought of... Life is really funny sometimes.

However no complaint.
At least, life's good so far.
And I am happy.

Tagged

This is what you are supposed to do. Cut and paste if you decide to participate in the tagging game. Each player of this game starts off by giving 6 weird things about themselves. People who get tagged need to write in a blog of their own 6 weird things as well as state the rules clearly. In the end, you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names.

After you do that, leave them each a comment letting them know you tagged them and to read your blog.

1. I find inspiration while showering.
2. I love to pull my bro's leg hair. Actually, I simply love bullying him.
3. I love hugs... A LOT (with anyone and everyone).
4. I don't like such games, but I still play along.
5. I find thrills in taking lifts with views outside.
6. I am a non-conformist.

Tagged by: Dearie Suz
People whom are tagged:

1) Shi Qi
2) Melissa
3) Felicia

The wedding

The wedding that I anticipated finally took place. Just to clarify, it was Joleen's wedding.

The preparation started the night before and the poor Teochew bride had to wake up at 4am for the makeup etc. I don't think any other dialect group's bride needs such an early rise. Naturally, the maids-of-honour too had to be ready early. In fact, we did not sleep at all the night before. So, the rest of the day was to me, tiring and very long.

If anything, I don't think I would ever want a traditional Chinese wedding for myself.

In fact, I think weddings are extravagant and for ceremonial's sake. A cosy and intimate celebration with the registration of the marriage should be sufficient. Afterall, a marriage is between the two people who will live together for the rest of their lives.

Anyway, here's sharing some of the photos taken. And yes, I am a little of a rebel against traditions.

Sharing her bliss and happiness with her.Family photo? No... these are just all the cousins, who are like flesh and blood brothers and sisters to one another.


The proudest people of all, Joleen's mum and brother.


Joleen's godparents and god-sister, i.e., my parents and me!


Joleen, at the happiest moment of her life.


The hand bouquet that was handmade by the "sisters".


Each rose on the wrist bands for the maids-of-honour was delicately and skillfully hand sewn on, in the wee hours of the night.

My Bestie

A friendship that cannot be measured by the number of years and amount of tears, smiles, hugs and joy shared. A friendship that only has eternity.

Risk

Risk is the factor that many people dare not take the plunge in life. They worry about what lies ahead and dare not step out of their boundaries or comfort zones. It is natural because in life, losing is always more painful than gaining. But, as the saying goes, "No pain, no gain!"

I've been deeply inspired by the following quote.

"The main thing is to always know that nothing in life is too hard. You never know until you give it a go." - Mark Inglis

Mark Inglis is the first double amputee to summit Mount Everest. I had the honour to meet him when he came to promote the show "Everest: Beyond the Limit" by Discovery Channel in Singapore while I was helping out at the event.

I hope that I can also put aside fears and risks and pursue my dreams. Will told me today that he remembered I had the characters of doing whatever I wanted. I wonder where all the courage went to. I think too much these days.

But, I shall keep remembering Mark Inglis' words and be fearless.